For the midlife woman who is done managing, fixing or editing herself
Embers Collective
A 5-month immersion to become your most pleasure-drenched & powerful self
Doors open November 2026.
tending the fire
Who would you be, with renewable pleasure and power?
Women over 45 living with low libido and muted orgasms are offered one of three things: medication and hormones, talk therapy, and sex coaching made for younger bodies.
While each approach has it's place, none provide a holistic path for the body and mind you actually live in now.
And because of the pervasive youth culture we swim in, you might feel like you are broken, and that you will never enjoy hot sex and wild pleasure again.
The reality is that you are in the middle of a life transformation, and your body is asking to be met in a completely new way.
stoking your embers
This is for you if any of these apply
• Your libido was ravenous in your forties and is now near zero, and you have no idea where it went or how to get it back.
• Your orgasms are smaller, shorter and harder to reach than they used to be, and there is less pleasure overall.
• You experience dryness, burning or pain during penetration, and it has reorganized your relationship to self or partnered intimacy.
• You have started avoiding sex and self-pleasure, maybe without having clearly admitted it to yourself.
• Your body is not looking or feeling the same as in your thirties, and you are done treating that as a problem to solve.
• You used to be able to push through and keep going at a fast clip, and that way of operating no longer works.
• Everyone in your life gets your energy before you do, and even knowing the cost outweighs the benefit, you still can't "find the time" for yourself.
• You are living with a charge of anger, grief and sadness that has nowhere to go, and it will not disappear on its own.
Are you ready to listen to what your body has been trying to tell you?
If so, Embers Collective was built for you.
If pain is part of your experience, Embers is designed to work alongside the care of your physician or a pelvic floor physiotherapist, and you will learn exactly what to bring to them.
fanning your flames
How your pleasure and your power can be transformed
By the end of five months, you will understand what changed in your body and why, and you will have every reason to stop calling yourself broken for it.
Your old libido will not be handed back to you, and what you will have instead is the practice of igniting desire and arousal on purpose, in the body you have now, amplified and cheered on by a circle of women who will have built theirs alongside you.
By the end of Embers Collective, you will have:
• Stopped guessing about discomfort, dryness and pain, because you will know the evidence-based options and the questions to bring to your practitioner.
• Grieved the old way to desire, out loud and in community, and made way for a new and powerful way to connect with your life force energy.
• Practised building arousal deliberately, and mapped the conditions your body, nervous system and yoni now asks for.
• Explored routes to orgasm that do not depend on your genitals responding on cue, and discovered which ones your body answers to.
• Digested emotions like anger and shame, and found out what your voice can do when it stops being polite.
• Taken time for yourself on purpose rather than after everyone else has been served.
• Practised looking at a body that is not the one you had at thirty-five through the eyes of a woman who finds her beautiful and sexy.
Every woman's body responds differently, and results vary. What Embers guarantees is an exquisitely held container, cutting edge teaching and coaching, and an amazing circle of like-hearted women going through the same experiences as you.
testimonials
"Vitality came back in my womb...
I feel so alive!"
- Celine, Sanctum Circle Participant
Kind words from women who have walked this path with me in various programs and private sessions.
Testimonials and photos are shared with their permission.
"I used to believe I had power only if men desired me. When that faded, I thought: I'm worthless. But what I discovered is that the power I had placed in the others' gaze, I can use for myself. "
- Amélie, Private Client
"Before this work, I thought 'orgasmic' and 'women in their 50s' didn't belong in the same sentence... But now, I feel feminine from the inside, not something I put on like a costume!"
- Dagmar, Private Client and Colleague
"There was something especially powerful about experiencing this journey in community with other women. Gathering together allowed us to witness and accompany one another through the descent and the rising.
- Shannon, The Golden Eggs Workshop Participant
"I am so grateful for the things that you teach and have taught me so far! I’ve adapted over the years to survive and live from a place driven by my wounds and now I want to live and thrive from a place of nurturing and self-love."
- Mélyne, Private Client and Inner Goddess Temple Participant
“I experienced remarkable breakthroughs.
And the practices have transformed the way I see myself and my life!”
- Janice, Private Client and Multiple Workshops Participant
How we'll build this fire together, month by month
MONTH 1 — Gathering the Kindling
Desire Decoded
Your nervous system, hormones and stress, and what actually feeds desire now, alone and with a partner. We gather what your fire needs at this stage of life: body love, dissolving internalized ageism, and the ripening of your Eros.
MONTH 2 — Clearing the Hearth
Sacred Grief
Before a new fire can be built, the old ash has to be cleared. We grieve the desire and arousal that once came easily, descending together, grieving and letting go, and releasing the voice, and we close with a completion ritual.
MONTH 3 — Striking the Spark
Yoni Vitality
The peri-, meno- and postmenopausal yoni, her consciousness and her vitality map. You learn to self de-armour through guided practice, and to care for her health and aliveness through practices, products and self love.
MONTH 4 — Feeding the Flame
Tantric Rituals
Breath is what feeds a fire. Tantra, neuroscience and breathwork come together in a symphony of ritual practices adapted for all phases of peri-menopause and post-menopause, using breath, sound, self-touch, pleasure and energy to nourish your bliss and your ecstasy.
MONTH 5 — Carrying the Embers
Embodying Eros
An ember is the fire you can carry home. You build a daily practice of feeling your life force and letting it fuel your legacy work, your proud aging and your mature erotic archetype, as you step into your next chapter carried by the sisterhood that built its fire beside you.
about luce
Erotic Sagescence Guide
I watch women in midlife and beyond give up on their dreams, their confidence and their rightful place in the world. They mute their voice, stop looking in the mirror, and throw in the towel on their erotic life.
And when a woman lets the fire of her Eros go out, her life force goes with it, and so does the legacy work she came here to do.
I know that path, because I was on it. What brought me back was listening to what was actually happening in my body, including my desire and my erotic life force.
The reason I can guide you is simple: at 54, my Eros is more alive than it has ever been, because I built it deliberately out of the embers of who I used to be. That is the fire Embers Collective exists to help you build.
I am a trauma-informed Somatic Educator for Women certified through the Somatic Institute for Women, a Sex, Love and Relationships coach trained in Layla Martin's VITA™ Coaching Method, and an ICF-credentialed coach.
I trained in pelvic de-armouring with Rahi Chun and yoni massage with Thalia Devi (which I teach in Embers as guided self-practices), and with Jane Hardwicke Collings on the shamanic dimensions of menopause.
How Embers Collective unfolds
MATRIARCH workshop at the Toronto Tantra Festival, 2025
Something happens when women move and feel together that none of us can create on our own.
The nervous system softens, safety returns, and a blooming confidence begins to rise from the inside.
You arrive as you are, you take what serves you, and you let a circle of women witness you as you become more yourself.
Over five months, from November to March, we build your fire one layer at a time.
Each month follows the same rhythm:
• We open with a Sanctuary, where you feel the practice in your body first.
• Two days later comes a Transmission, where you come to understand what you felt.
• Then you have a week of Self Practice, with your audio also available on WhatsApp, so it's always in your pocket.
• The month closes in a Sharing Circle, where we witness one another with no fixing or advice.
Every other week, I will also be offering a Fireside Chat, where you can ask me anything.
The container is in rest mode from mid-December to early January. This allows you spaciousness for the holidays, and a juicy welcome back in the New Year.
Optional practices and documents are there for you to take when you want them, and every session is recorded so you can come back to it in your own time.
Your embers are waiting to be tended
You haven't quite let die who you were, and you haven't yet ignited who you are becoming.
If you can feel yourself standing on that threshold and hesitating to cross it, Embers Collective was built for you.
Whatever has gone quiet in your body, your desire and your life force is still glowing underneath, and it is waiting to be tended by you, in the company of women who understand exactly what you are living through.
The circle will be small, so join the waitlist to be the first to hear when doors open, and to receive everything you need to decide in your own time.
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